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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Short or Long Engagement?

Lynnie, on April 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Community Conversations 322

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How much time are you giving yourselves to plan the big day? Will your engagement be short or long?


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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    Officially- short.... but not really

    Marriage conversations began coming up in 2017 and gradually increased over the years, with the main hang-up being finances and my fiancé wanted to make sure he got a ring I loved. In 2018 I had the thought, that we would just pick a date and start planning, then he could "propose" any time between then and the night prior to the wedding. It was September 2018 when I decided I liked the date September 28th, 2019 and we started casually looking at venues/vendors online to start pricing things out, decide a budget, etc. September 30th, 2018 we decided to go to Diamonds Direct to look at engagement rings. They were having a promotion that offered a 5 year-no interest payment plan, and while I told my FH we did not need to commit that day, he bought it! The ring would arrive 4-6 weeks from then, and we moved forward with wedding planning

    He officially proposed December 23rd, 2018 and we were able to secure a gorgeous venue for September 28th, 2019.

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  • A
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Amber ·
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    Been together 12years I'm not waiting anymore lol 5 months is all he gets
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  • S
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Samantha ·
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    Super short- Less than 3 months from engagement to marriage. We were together 5 years though (included law school etc.).

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  • Laura
    Dedicated September 2020
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    Long! 18 month engagement. Gives us a lot of time to save & beautiful weather for our spring beach wedding Smiley smile

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  • Brittnye
    Just Said Yes September 2019
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    Really short 5 months!
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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes August 2019
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    Short. Just 4 months from our engagement to marriage.
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  • Kristal
    Just Said Yes August 2020
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    February 2019 married on August 2020
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  • Katie
    Devoted September 2020
    Katie ·
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    I thought it was long, about a year and 5 months, but I'm suddenly feeling like we might actually need MORE time lol
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  • Connie
    Savvy September 2020
    Connie ·
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    Long! We got engaged September 2018 and our wedding will be April 2020 . I definitely wanted to enjoy our engagement I just started planning my wedding though lol
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  • Julie
    Devoted October 2020
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    19 months! And it worked out perfectly! Our first little one will make an appearance with about 9 months to spare!
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  • Short-Vitosh2019
    Savvy August 2019
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    Short. 6 months from proposal to wedding
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  • Nafisah
    Super May 2019
    Nafisah ·
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    I little under 2 years. 22 months to be exact. We've got 35 days left and I needed every minute to plan it the way I wanted lol
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  • Kayla
    Dedicated October 2020
    Kayla ·
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    Long, just shy of two years total. A year and a half to go! It still feels like not enough time
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  • Jennifer
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    Short, got engaged on March 18th, 2019 and we'll be married on July 13th 2019 so a total of just under 4 months
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  • Kendra
    Devoted September 2019
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    Ours has been pretty short, 11 months.
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  • Alhina
    Devoted August 2019
    Alhina ·
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    Long 15 months
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  • Megan
    Expert November 2022
    Megan ·
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    I would love to have a shorter engagement ( already been together 10 years) but we are having a long engagement so we can save up for the wedding.
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  • Val
    Dedicated September 2019
    Val ·
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    Fairly long just because we needed to save money; we got engaged on 12/24/17 and we are getting married 9/14/19 so about 21 months! They’ve been lovely
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  • Sarah
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Sarah ·
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    Short! 6 months and it wasn’t a problem at all
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  • C
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Claudia ·
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    We haven together some 201 Proposed November 2017 Wedding Date October 2019
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