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Ava
Dedicated October 2022

Should i cancel my reception?

Ava, on March 11, 2022 at 2:35 PM Posted in Planning 1 5
When I was younger I thought about a wedding but as an adult I’ve wanted to elope. We got engaged last yr on a mountain top after 10 yrs of dating. I got excited because of my Mom and feel slightly pressured into a wedding. My fiancé wanted 2 close friends and his parents to witness, I wanted my dad and step Mom there. My parents are divorced and I don’t have a relationship with my step dad . My relationship with my sisters are up and down and I feel they are fake at times. We wanted a small ceremony and a restaurant dinner but restaurants wanted to charge $3000 for 10 people. Then we picked a cute country cottage for the reception l. I got excited and signed a contract for $6000 & the last turned into 50 people; mostly family I don’t talk to consistently. My Mom paid for my dress, paid half for my coordinator, and is planning on shelling out more. She doesn’t know that my fiancé list his job a couple months ago and the thousands are stressing us out. Also we don’t want to pay for people to come gossip and eat then leave.


My question is how to get out of the venue contact?? It says it must be paid even if the reception is cancelled. Will wedding insurance cover the $6,000? We already paid $1500

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Latest activity by Jacks, on March 12, 2022 at 1:44 AM
  • Ava
    Dedicated October 2022
    Ava ·
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    *the list turned into 50
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  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
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    Usually wedding insurance will only cover cancellation if there’s a specific reason you are unable to host your event on that day (injury or illness; your venue closing down or experiencing flood/fire/damage, etc). Do you have wedding insurance? If you do, the best way to find out would be to call. If you don’t, I wouldn’t get insurance just to cancel the event- that could be considered fraudulent and they wouldn’t cover you in that case.
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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
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    Wedding insurance usually specifically excludes a “change of heart.”
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  • Bird
    Super June 2021
    Bird ·
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    Also, you would probably need to have the insurance before booking any vendors????


    If I were you and you truly want to get out of your contract with your venue you should simply ask them. Your fiancé lost his job. That’s a good reason. You could settle for not getting your deposit back but not having to pay the rest (assuming they agree to that). You could try going to the venue and talking to the wedding person or manager face to face to explain your situation.
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    I would ask the venue, but don't count on getting that back. They may be able to book the date if you cancel, but the deposit is meant for them to hold the date for you.

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