This is becoming an issue and causing a lot of anxiety for me. My sister is still throwing jabs at me that she knows will hurt me and seems like she's trying to get my attention in a very immature way tbh( I have not communicated her with her at all. I am ignoring it). This is starting to get under me and my Fiancé's skin's and becoming an unhappy process for us.
My sister is likely to keep her behavior about her birthday(9/20) being close to our wedding date every year and our anniversary being close as well. I only believe this just, because how she proved me wrong that I thought she would just be happy for me, but instead has seemed to make this about her.
I am wondering if I should change it from 9/16 to 9/30?
Also, opinions on still inviting her I am open on still.
we are getting married in a Courthouse then having a small dinner with close family and my best friend and his close friends.