I’m getting married in about 4 and a half months!
I don’t want to invite him at all. He physically and mentally abused me , my sister and my mom for many years living there, He made my mom kick me out a day after I turned 18. He makes everything about him and all the conversations with my mom he has to be involved with. He blames me for everything bad that’s ever happened to them, I haven’t been in contact for 5 years now! He’s sick in the head because he’s sending sexual messages to my sister on social media, he tries to do the same with me but I blocked him. My mom knows about the whole thing and she’s defending him! She hasn’t talked about my wedding at all other than the fact that he needs to be in the invitations. If I don’t she won’t go! My dad passed away a year ago and I get really sad everytime I think he’s not going to be there, so i planned on having a mother-daughter dance instead. But at this point she’s making it about her and her boyfriend, I already told her I don’t want him to be anywhere near the wedding. She plays the guilt card on me and it’s giving me unnecessary stress and anxiety!!!
I put his name on the save the dates invitations just to satisfy my mom, but I’m getting ready to make my actual invitations and I don’t plan on putting his name on it , he’s not even on the guestlist or count.
Any suggestions? I’m really stressed out about this.
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