OK WeddingWire Ladies...I'm about to put ya'll all into my business. Well, only a little bit. So, I have an older brother who is 42 and two younger sisters. One who is 34 and the other is 20. My brother does not really support my relationship with my FH although he says he does, his actions speak louder. So I am wondering if he should be invited to my wedding also. My bigger issue is my 34 year old sister whom I love dearly and we can have the most beautiful relationship and I know this because its happened before, but right now we are not speaking. This is not the first time we have not been on speaking terms, but for some reason, this time, I am no longer hurt or bothered by it. I feel kinda "over it" a this point. Our father recently passed away in August 2019 and during the time of me planning our father's funeral, my sister, the 34 year old has a a lot to say about me on a phone call with my youngest sister who had her on speaker and 34 year old didn't know I was around to hear. She spoke on how she hated me, doesn't feel I deserved any of my dad's insurance money, said that our dad didn't like me, and how he doesn't support my relationship with FH. There's is so much more to the history of our relationship that I would be typing til next Thursday. I am not the type of person to play victim, I accept my wrongs and own up to them, I don't like drama, I am an easy going person, but my sister is the type to get mad when she is not the center of attention. She caused drama at my baby shower because it was not all about her. She even tried to be with my FH before he and I were serious. Also, my sister got married about 4 years ago and she kept it a secret from me. My whole family kept it a secret because she decided she didn't want me there. That hurt. A part of me wants to be the bigger person AGAAAAIN and invite her, but the other part of me is SO TIRED of being the bigger person and accept that our relationship will never be what it should be and I also feel that she will somehow find a way to ruin my day. My FH is over it and all of her drama. What would you ladies do? FH and I both decided early on that we only wanted guests at our wedding that genuinely love and support us as a unit. Family or not, if there is no support, you will not be there.