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Should i invite the Grooms people to the bachelorette party?

Kylee, on March 10, 2021 at 5:54 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 8
So my fiancé has 2 women in his party. His best man and a groomsman are actually women. He’s not planning on have a bachelor party so I feel like I should invite them to my bachelorette party. Would that be weird? Or would it be weird not to invite them?

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Latest activity by Rebecca, on March 10, 2021 at 10:41 PM
  • Caitlin
    Devoted May 2021
    Caitlin ·
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    What if you have a couples one? I think either way if fine. I feel like the 2 other ladies would be down
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I think it is completely up to you. My husband had a groomswoman and I invited her to mine, but she didn't attend. She did attend his bachelorette party though.

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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I’d see if your fiancé wants. I’d ask them if he doesn’t want to have a joint party.
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  • K
    Dedicated April 2022
    Kylee ·
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    He doesn’t want to have one because all but 2 of his party live out of state and wouldn’t be able to come
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    If you’re close with them and they would have been invited to your bachelorette even if he didn’t have them as groomswomen, sure. If not, then no. They’re his attendants, they don’t need to be invited to your bachelorette just because they’re females.
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  • Heather
    Super November 2021
    Heather ·
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    Ask your FH to see what he thinks. I'm sure he would actually love that you are including them into your wedding festivities and are not limiting to JUST the bridal side.

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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    It depends on your relationship with them. I wanted my best friends at my party, so that’s who i invited. If they weren’t my best friends, I wouldn’t invite them. DONT do it just as a courtesy, only invite them if you yourself are close with them/hang out with them without your FH etc
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    We had mixed parties, and invitations were extended to both sides. In the end, there wasn't crossover, because we both had picked people we were super close to individually.

    So, invite them if you are close, but if not, I don't think they'd be offended.

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