Sorry this is going to be long and probably immature. I need help deciding what to do about my two friends who have been in my life for years but now there is a huge strain in the relationship. I’ve been living far away from my best friends and have recently came back home. I asked them to hang out tonight (I haven’t seen them in months) and they both said they wanted to hang out Saturday instead, (even though on social media I know they see each other every Friday). I had a feeling they’d hang out tonight and turns out they did. Me being far away the relationship with them has been strained, they’ve made it clear they don’t like my fiancé and pre covid when I was planning to see them on July 4th they told me clearly that my fiancé can’t come even though I’ve hung out with multiple ex’s that my friends have had and have never made it an issue even though I didn’t care for some of them. They’ve been excluding me from plans for years and I’ve talked to them about it before and they just say they think I’m busy. And I’ve written here before talking about how one of the girls was mad that I choose my bridesmaids dresses to be green cause that’s “her color she wanted” even though she isn’t planning a wedding anytime soon and is married. I confronted them and asked them why I wasn’t invited and they said cause they’re hanging out with this girl that they just met and asked if I could join and this girl didn’t want me there. I’ve know one of my bridesmaids since we were in middle school and to be excluded because of someone else I didn’t even know really hurt. I’m at the point where I don’t even want them on my bridal party anymore and I know that’s friendship ending but I don’t know what to do anymore I’m so upset. I just don’t know what to do, do I have a right to be upset? Am I over reacting.
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