Im to sure how to start this off. I'm from an abusive family. Mainly from my older sister and my mother and dad is just a sweetheart. Well my sister in-law (sil) asked me about bridemaids and information about that. I spoke to her brother (future husband) and told him about it he has explain to me that she's a lot like my sister. (My sister and I don't get a long at all she has done somethings in my life that isn't really humanly right.) Well with my sister I can grin and bare her. With sil she will show her a** once she doesn't get her way. She also can't drive! The bridal party will be getting ready at the moh house. That's not a problem with anyone else only with sil. Everyone the night before the wedding is going to spend the night. A couple of days ago I ask.and updated her. She wants me to pick her the day of the wedding and drive her to moh house to take pictures. That's not really a problem but I can't do that. 1 I won't have my car moh will be using the car to drive everyone to the church. 2 I'm going to be really busy I got to help 3 people get ready and also get myself ready. So it's not reau possible for me to drive her. I've offered her to spend the night with us but she's not having. Also the color of the dress is the only thing that I'm asking for (royal blue) I'm getting married in a church so I want them to be "modest" like don't show to much skin mainly the top and bottom. The dresses she sent me shows everything except for one. (I'm going to attach the dress she picked and number them) she wanted to wear dress 1 and I suggested dress 3 and explained why 1 and 2 was not going to work. She's the only one that I'm have a problem with. I'm not to sure what to do but I've told my party that I'm going to put her in some sweat paints and a big t-shirt if she shows up in a dress I've explained that isn't going to work.
I explained that the dresses won't work and she got upset. So I'm kinda thinking about kicking her out of the wedding or at least show her that what she wants to happen is not going to work out. (I'm also on a very tight budget when I can't really get a ride or anything)
Dress 1
dress 2
Dress 3
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