We just sent out our invites and most people have gotten theirs now. My aunt texted me on Sunday to let me know that her daughters had gotten their invites and they were wondering if they could bring their boyfriends. I was prepared for this, thanks to all the fore-warnings sites like Wedding Wire gave about this being very likely to happen and told my aunt that money is tight so we really have to stick to our guest list. Now I'm second guessing myself. They will be driving in from Indy (about a 2 1/2 hour drive) and there will be dancing. However, we have never met these guys and we really can't afford to let every single guest bring a plus-one. My other concern about saying no is that another cousin has been in a relationship for a while and my fiance and I have met the boyfriend... I forgot to put him on her invite, but feel like I should have invited him and am leaning toward letting her know that he IS invited. Dunno what to do. Any advice??