We sent our wedding invites early April and asked guests to RSVP on our website by June 3, which is 16 days away. I'm going to be away on my bachelorette trip the week RSVP's are due and looks like 40 people have yet to RSVP.
Is it too soon to start messaging them as a reminder of the June 3 RSVP date? I wouldn't be messaging all of them. My fiance would be messaging his half when he gets back his trip end of May. But I just don't want to have to message my half while I'm trying to enjoy my trip. So would it be okay to just politely remind people now?
Thank you!