My wedding will be in New Orleans. I am currently living in Atlanta, GA. My bridesmaids are majority from out of town and do not live in New Orleans. I am currently looking to pay for the bridal party hair, makeup, bridesmaids gifts and food. They are paying $250 for their dresses, bridal shower, etc. I found a great airbnb that will be $250 per person, 3 nights. Should I pay for their lodging for the whole weekend or ask them to pay that money?