Should i postpone my wedding day?!!

Yes, you should postpone. It's been recommended not to have any gatherings of more than ten people in the next eight weeks. Your wedding meets both of those criteria.

"As long as all guest in attendance are healthy and do basic things like washing their hands you are fine. "

I'm sorry, but that's very dangerous advice to give and also false information. The CDC has put precautions in place for a reason and if people deliberately ignore them, we can expect things to get much worse before they get any better. There is no way to know for sure if anyone is "healthy". Symptoms can take 2-14 days to appear and asymptomatic patients spread the virus just as much as those with symptoms. Please encourage others to make responsible decisions for the health and well-being of the public. Otherwise, this pandemic will last much longer and have a much higher death toll.

The CDC recommendations are nationwide, as are the White House recommendations. COVID-19 is highly contagious and patients don't always show symptoms, which is why social distancing is a huge deal. Your statement of "As long as all guest in attendance are healthy and do basic things like washing their hands you are fine." is absolutely dangerous, inaccurate, and is 100% ignoring CDC precautions. Nothing good will come from ignoring these precautions.

This. Just because your BFF Brittney from college doesn't have a cough, doesn't mean that she can't pass the virus onto your 80 year old grandma. Then grandma Shirley is in critical care, intubated on a ventilator, because you decided that your wedding was more important than her health.

Unfortunately, YES you should absolutely postpone. Our only hope of beating this virus is if we follow the CDC guidelines. No gatherings of more than 10 people for the next 8 weeks. I'm so sorry

I would definitely postpone. Public health and safety is paramount over anyone's wedding. In fact, I'm a professional in the wedding industry, and I've just advised all my brides and grooms to cancel or postpone their March and April weddings, and with everything that's just now come into effect, May weddings as well. We're about 10-14 days behind Italy when it comes to the virus and their initial casual feelings about the virus have now lead to a country-wide lockdown and hundreds of deaths. Contact between people (even those feeling totally fine) can spread the virus on to people who are at risk (immunocompromised in some way) super quickly, and in order to give medical professionals an opportunity to get a handle on things, staying home and not going to any non-essential appointments or outings is pertinent. They're closing down restaurants, bars, and theaters, and people get much closer (hugging, celebrating, sitting in aisles/pews) to each other at weddings than they do at those places.

Sorry about how things have turned out for you individually here--it's definitely been frustrating for brides and grooms getting married anytime soon. I'd strongly suggest postponing.

I agree with PPs. Reaching out to vendors to figure out their contingency plans has been the most helpful for me.

Our wedding was May 9th and our venue pulled the plug before we could. Its safer for everyone based on the CDC's recommendations. I would postpone now so to give you the best chance of rescheduling this year. We were lucky that our venue had 3 Saturdays open that we could choose from. I'm sad but everyone has been super accommodating!

This is not true. The guidance that was issued was NATIONAL guidance, and it exists for important reasons based on science. Even if local counties aren't "enforcing" it, it doesn't change the fact that the risk still exists and is very much real.

We are still working and it's a gamble for for us everyday...Good Luck