I am a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding next fall. I love her dearly and I consider her one of my best friends.
However - I am strongly opposed to her marrying the man she is engaged to. First of all - he has refused to help pay for the wedding. What started as begrudgingly accepting to be responsible for a few things (hiring a DJ, for example) he has flat-out refused to do, and my friend has so far paid for 80% of their $20k wedding on her own (his parents have helped with the rehearsal dinner planning).
At ten years her senior, you would imagine he'd be mature enough to handle contributing to his own wedding, but he is the most immature person I would consider a "friend" in literally every aspect I have ever been witness to. (there is not enough space to go into full detail, but I definitely have more to cover!)
Anyway, the $$ issue-while a concern, not the biggest problem-makes me want to tell her she shouldn't get married to him. thoughts?