Hi y'all! My fiance and I are planning our September 2022 wedding and it felt off for us to not have any flair of our nerdy personality in the planning; So we added them. I've gotten these cute planters of each nerdy aspect we love for our centerpieces like a Death Star (Star Wars), the question block (Mario), a moon (Sailor Moon), Navi (Zelda), a D20 (Dungeons & Dragons), and the One Ring (Lord of the Rings). And that is just the start of our personality seeping into the wedding, I fear that my family will be immediately turned off once they come in to see an untraditional take of what they would suspect and start questioning our judgment.
Would it be weird to give a nerd disclaimer on the invitation so our family would know what they are getting into? Or should we not say anything and let our true selves be out there for all to witness?