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Should our mothers tour venues with us?

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FutureMrsJochum, on October 3, 2017 at 2:20 PM

So I feel like the subject heading is pretty much what I wanted to ask and it's probably a dumb question but FI and I have appointments to see venues over these next two weeks and I was wondering if just the two of us should go or is it pretty common or customary to have like our moms with us? Are friends and family supposed to come? I'd like for it to be just the two of us til we make a final decision but I also don't wanna break rules or anything....and that sounds silly too...help!!!!

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Bride2Be2018 · on October 3, 2017 at 10:00 PM
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It depends on who is paying? If you're paying you get to decide whether or not you want her there, and often people will just have them and their SO in that case. If she is hosting, then yeah you do need to bring her
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Amy · on October 3, 2017 at 10:00 PM
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FH and I did all the initial tours ourself and then brought both of our parents to our top two venues and let them weigh in
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FutureMrsN14 · on October 3, 2017 at 11:09 PM
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We went just the two of us, then once we narrowed it down to two venues, took our parents back to just those two for their opinions (they are both contributing some to the wedding)
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