Hi all-
From my previous posts, you all know that FH and I are struggling between deciding to elope, trying to put together an immediate family only wedding (with lots of travel restrictions in our way), or just waiting. Part of my FH's concern with eloping or even having an immediate-family only event is that our older family members won't understand and won't attend the celebration because it's "just a party" and not a wedding. I have seen some people on the forum say that they are going to hide that they are married until the celebration, at least from older family members, so everyone will come. Is this an okay thing to do? I think this would solve a lot of my problems and make it an easier decision to just elope, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.