FH and I aren't planning on getting married until December 2018, but we've been doing venue tours and trying to get some things pre planned so we have an idea of cost, and it just seems more and more unrealistic every day with how expensive it's going to be, to have an actual wedding. We are only planning on having around 45-50 people, but the cheapest we can find even for that is $6000+ for venue and catering. We have some time to save up, but we are already struggling financially (I'm looking for a new job), so my parents are willing to pay... but I don't want them to have to take out a loan.
So, we've been talking about flying out to somewhere beautiful and snowy in the woods, and getting married with just our parents and anyone else who can or wants to come... and maybe have a "reception"/celebration with everyone back home later... does that sound crazy?
Any input? Thoughts? Ideas?
I'd love to have a traditional ceremony... but it just doesn't seem realistic for us.