Hi guys. I’ve been so busy with wedding planning but I’ve also been feeling guilty because I struggled with retroactive jealousy about my fiancé’s old crush from high school who he never dated but really wanted to date all of high school. They had a thing and they kissed at one point as well. It’s been a long time since that happened and they’re still friends although he hasn’t talked to her for a while. there’s another friend he also kissed in high school but it was platonic. He isn’t super close to these girls but he still believes they’re his friends.
The girl he had a crush on invited us to her wedding and we had a bunch of fights about her bc I think her invitation made me believe how much closer they were (or at least thats how they seemed). For him, he has FOMO and just wants to celebrate with this friends
I regret giving him a hard time and wish I could turn back time and agree to go to her wedding. I know I’ve had insecurities and I don’t want that to ruin his friendships.
Anyway regarding our wedding, I wonder if I should even invite these two girls? If I had it my way, I personally don’t want to bc I’d rather not have girls who he’s been intimate with at my special day. Am I being selfish? I am totally okay with him staying friends with them and moving forward I’m okay with him meeting them if there are friends reunions and such. I don’t know what to do.
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