Hi all!
FH and I postponed our big wedding celebration until next Summer, but will still be getting civilly married on our original date this October. I live in NY.
With current COVID restrictions we cannot have a "traditional" wedding shower and a "drive by" shower isn't possible because my entire family lives in 3 different states (2 of those states cannot even come to NY right now). And "virtual" showers make be extremely uncomfortable- I didn't even like finishing school virtually haha.
Is a "shower by mail" tacky? Normally I would NEVER want that because I'd want to celebrate with everyone. But, unfortunately- that's not possible right now. And I also don't want to have a "bridal shower" after I'm already a wife!
What are your thoughts?