Shower Guest List Worries

Oh that’s strange. Did you ask your MOH why she invited them? I am sorry I would not know what to do.

View Quoted Comment No, I didn’t ask. I don’t want to make her feel like I am upset with her or unhappy with anything she has done. Because I really am very grateful that she was sweet enough to plan this. I guess she invited them because we are all friends, but we have just all recently become friends. So they did not make the original guest list a year ago, didn’t get STD’s 5 months ago, and we didn’t order them invitations, which are planned to go out next month. I’m torn...

Ah... It's kind of late to invite them now huh. But you didn't have any control over this guest list so I think you aren't obligated to invite them to wedding

You aren’t obligated to invite them to the wedding, but if you have any bit of wiggle room, I would probably invite them. If not, your BM is the one that looks bad, not you.

You're not obligated one bit. Should your MOH have given you a glimpse at the guest list sooner? Yeah probably.

But like you said, your guest list is final and changing it might not be an option.

Not obligated, but I probably would invite them.