Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

R
Savvy January 2021

Siblings not attending my wedding

Rachel, on December 9, 2020 at 7:48 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 12
So I guess I just need to vent. I’m moving forward with our wedding that was planned a year and half ago which will be held in January and in Florida but, I’m so disappointed that none of my 3 siblings will be at my wedding. Granted, I’m out of state and my parents will be there, but maybe I’m the one being selfish by not postponing for 3 people .... my fiancé’s entire family will be there and not mine ... this is heartbreaking

12 Comments

Latest activity by Kari, on December 11, 2020 at 6:38 PM
  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Do they not want to travel because of Covid? If so I understand where they are coming from. But I get why you're sad. Can they zoom in on the wedding?
    • Reply
  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I agree with Yasmine's suggestion! Can they watch the ceremony on video chat? I'm sorry that they aren't able to attend in person! It unfortunately comes with having a COVID wedding that some people will not feel comfortable attending. I've seen posts from people whose wedding party, family members, close friends, etc. had to back out due to COVID. It's definitely disappointing, but by including them virtually, they'll still be able to celebrate with you.
    • Reply
  • R
    Savvy January 2021
    Rachel ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    One is Covid, the other because mask refusal on a plane due to a heart condition and airlines are making no exceptions and the 3rd her dog is old but doing well and doesn’t want to leave the dog.
    • Reply
  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Aww I'm sorry to hear that, Covid is changing and messing with so many things 😥 I know it's not the same as them physically being there but maybe you could facetime with them or talk to them on the phone before the ceremony
    • Reply
  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I'm so very sorry this is happening. I totally understand the disappointment. I'm currently pregnant and my husband hasn't been able to attend appointments with me and I haven't been able to see my family in months. Unfortunately, though this is what happens when you choose to get married or have a baby during the pandemic.

    • Reply
  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I'm so sorry, love. Thats a tough spot to be in. My FH and I opted out of siblings attending. We are only having our parents present
    • Reply
  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Yasmine has a great alternative for them attending. That’s going to be the next best option. My fiancé just asked what we’re going to do about the restrictions- we will proceed as usual but our guest list will be changed.
    • Reply
  • J
    Master 0000
    Judith ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    But the sorrow is there. Sure, they can see a 2 camera view of your ceremony, some consolation for them. But they are not there with you.
    Be glad they are at least safe, and enjoys your friends, and maybe spend more te with hos relatives than you would, Also a good thing. 😟 But I am sorry, you will miss them.
    • Reply
  • A
    Super September 2020
    Alli ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Can’t blame them... as we are in a terrible pandemic. Hopefully they’ll watch virtually!
    • Reply
  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I'm sorry you are feeling hurt. I love my siblings but, due to the pandemic, I wouldn't travel for one of their weddings either. I would be sad; they would be sad. But each of us would have to live with our choices.

    • Reply
  • Georgia
    Savvy May 2022
    Georgia ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I'm sorry. This is a hard time. I hope they can watch your wedding virtually.

    • Reply
  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I really feel for you but the situation is just awful. I feel like there is no winning with Covid.

    I think the best you can do is respect their decision not to come (its for safety reasons after all) and make the most of your day with your partner. Weddings are really about the couple - everyone else is extraneous. Make the day about the two of you and your love as best you can.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics