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Siblings & Wedding Involvement

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Lisa, on September 28, 2020 at 9:31 PM

Did you involve your siblings in your wedding? If so, did you include all of them, or just the one(s) you are close to? Are they in your wedding party? Or did you give them another task (such as a ceremony reading or escorting a family member down the aisle)?

My fiance and I are including some, but not all, of our siblings. My sister is my MOH, and my brother and brother-in-law are both ushers. My fiance decided to not include his siblings in our wedding at all.

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Molly · on October 6, 2020 at 9:51 PM
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My sister is a bridesmaid. My FH has three siblings. One he has never met and one he's never really had in his life. His youngest sibling is a lot younger (I think 15) and he's not close to her either. I think family is important to have at the wedding but, there is no obligation to include them.
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Lisa · on October 7, 2020 at 9:06 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your dad! Very cool that you can include both siblings!
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Lisa · on October 7, 2020 at 9:08 AM
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Makes sense! I agree with only including those who you are close to, regardless of if they are family or not. My fiance is not close with his siblings, so he chose to not include them in our wedding.
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Lisa · on October 7, 2020 at 9:09 AM
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All good reasons to not include them!
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Lisa · on October 7, 2020 at 9:11 AM
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A sibling dance sounds like a really cool idea, I've never heard of that before! Great way to include them.
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Lisa · on October 7, 2020 at 9:13 AM
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I agree with you, you should only include those who you are close to, regardless of whether they are family. No obligation to include anyone, actually. Very cool that your sister is a bridesmaid!
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