In order to avoid family war I decided to make my neice and nephew a sign carrier. Because apparently getting married 2nd - means i lose my decision making power. (i have 3 neices and 4 nephews) So since my sister picked my oldest neice as flower girl - i'm not allowed to - unless i pick the other one too. (i made my mother cry in the store)
So I will have the main flower girl and ring bearer (of my choice) walking down separate.
and to avoid war I will make the other neice a sign carrier along with another nephew. (i'm not a fan of multiple flower girls) And they will walk down together carrying a "here comes the bride" sign.
Logistically - in what order would they walk down. First or right before me? And where would the flower girl and ring bearer walk in relation to them.