Hi ladies
I need advice about an issue I’m having with my FSIL (FH’s brother’s fiancée). Her wedding is planned for January and mine is planned for next October. Well due to covid restriction uncertainty and family health issues, FH and I have decided to do a minimony this October on our anniversary date with immediate family only and hope for the best for our reception next year. Well now FSIL is upset because this was supposed to be her time and she thought it was really inconsiderate of us. She also wanted her bridal shower to be the weekend after. I was a bit worried about the shower so explained it was a special date to us and didn’t think it would be a big deal because they’re two separate weekends. Sounds like she feels we’re just trying to beat them like it’s a competition. I was pretty shocked by her response tbh and now I’m questioning if I’m the a**hole or if she’s just being unreasonable? It was also really hurtful that she thinks that low of me like this isn’t how I envisioned my wedding but there’s a pandemic going on and my grandma is dying and I want her to see me married so what am I to do?