Single digits

It sounds like you’ve had a tough week so far but I hope things get easier and you’re able to enjoy it all.

Just 9 days left!!!!

I am so sorry all of that happened to you. I truly hope that is the worst of it. We are almost there (date twin) and it is going to be amazing!!! Enjoy the pedicure.

You've got this!! Only 9 more days!!

Yikes! Sorry that's all on your plate at once. At least it's all popping off the week before and not the day of!

Thanks ladies.
Honestly, the worse piece of advice that I listened to was not telling her that I didn't want her in the wedding party beforehand. All the signs were there that it was going downhill & that it would be drama - but I didn't do anything about it. Now, I'm left calling people, changing things, paying for things that I didn't need & paying to replace things that I did & feeling absolutely terrible. The entire situation has completely stressed me out, and washed any fun & joy that I was experiencing before.

The planning was done, I was enjoying myself. Now, I have to re-plan so much & I am not enjoying anything. I just want to get this wedding over with. 3 days of emails & nasty text messages will take a toll on you.

But yay - only 9 days to go... right

And guess what - we aren't friends now. So the thing that I was trying to prevent from happened, actually happened. My biggest piece of advise, it's your wedding, if someone is causing you stress - you are NOT obligated to keep her in the wedding.

Almost date twins! You're the day before me! It will all workout and be worth it. You are doing a great job making the most of it. I know the feels they say the week leading up to your wedding is the most stressful and everything that can go wrong will go wrong (Murphys law). My car battery died, cracked radiator, bad tires, then today someone tried hacking my cards (for 7k) didn't go through but made me cancel my card to get anew one issued AND THEN had to pay to expedite it because I leave on Wednesday and it wouldn't be here in time -_- you got this girl.

Thank you for the kind words - and I am so sorry to hear about your credit card. Thankfully the charge didn't go through, but jeez what a hassle.

I know that I will get through it. It just so much additional work that I really shouldn't be having to do 9 days out. I remember when we hit 99 days out and I was like wow in 90 days I'll be in the single digits and that is the last digits sequence to hit & really thought that I was going to be so excited. But now, I'm just so depressed.

And I don't want to say too much to FH, he paid a lot of money to get things the way that they were... I don't want to be like, well thank you for agreeing to spend all this money, but I'm still miserable. When I get home from work, maybe I'll just go to sleep & hopefully feel better tomorrow.

Murphys law is real. I know its stressful. Luckily you have a supportive FH BUT I would talk to your FH about your feelings because these feelings don't always just go away. My sister passed away earlier this year and for 5 months I was VERY depressed. my FH really hasn't done much for the wedding besides help pay but all the planning was on me. So that and everything else in my life was stressful. now this close to the wedding he is seeing how stressed I am and has really taken the lead on the things causing me stress and we have been able to openly talk about them and hes even gone out of his way to make me tea, foot rubs and so on just to help me relax for a minute. I really encourage you to talk through these feelings with your FH so you don't resent your wedding down the road hugs and good vibes sent your way girl YOU GOT THIS!