Sister in law troubles!

That is pretty rude!

i highly doubt that can happen though because the day is so busy and time flies so fast the photographer isn't going to have any still moments anyway but for her to think of it is rude

Wow, that is very rude! People just don't think. Not sure what you're going to do about it, but I don't think I would be able to bite my tongue on that one...good luck!

No you are no over reacting that’s a ridiculous request even if she is paying for the photos. Your photographer is there for you and your FH not a family portrait!!!

I think it was on reddit? I saw a story where the sister secretly had her engagement photos done during the wedding. And the photographer did it. And the sister wanted the photos for her save the dates. And the bride missed important shots. I don’t think you are overreacting and I would just warn your photographer ahead of time.

I agree with PP that it may be worth giving your photographer a heads up. But this is beyond rude! You have every right to be upset.

That is rude! I would be so furious . But I doubt that will happen since you guys are paying for specifically a wedding and a limited time

This is so rude. I would have told your sister-in-law there is no way that is happening and if she wants a photo shoot of her and her family then she can have one done at a separate time. I would also warn your photographer in advance that your sister-in-law may try to take over that way your photographer isn't caught off guard.

Nope you are not overreacting. You are paying for a limited amount of time, and that is not okay. I would warn your photographer ahead of time because then the photographer can just say no to her

That's not an overreaction! Please have the conversation with your FSIL and FH in the same room so the message is not lost. It needs to be clearly outlined to her that she will not be getting the chance to take separate pictures.

I’ve seen people pull photographers aside and ask for a picture of their family, nothing out of the ordinary. But if she wants like a whole photo shoot, then that’s a little strange.

No, you are not overreacting. The correct answer to your FSIL is "NO," message to be delivered by your FH so she does not think it is something she can just ignore you about and do anyway.

Honestly, some people. smh.

Edited to add, I think you should also mention this to your photographer, and let them know that you are NOT ok with this, so if FSIL decides to still give it a go, the photographer will know to say No.

Nope, shes being rude. She can get one photo with just her family then that is it. You have to warn the photographer ha.