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Skip Rehearsal Dinner or Welcome Drinks?

Caitlyn, on July 14, 2019 at 3:42 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 7

FH and I are running into a timing problem. Our church rehearsal is from 6 - 7 p.m. and our thought was to have a formal sit down dinner with immediate family and the bridal party (totaling 13 people) and then host a welcome drinks and appetizers for our OOT guests (which equate to 95% of our guest list). If we do both, I think dinner would take an hour and a half and welcome drinks could take two hours (per event space rental agreements). Would it be too late to host welcome drinks from 8:30 - 10:30 or 9 - 11 the night before a wedding? We are worried we won't have enough time for both and I don't think many people want to snack on appetizers at 9 p.m. What do you think? Should we attempt to cram it in or skip one of the two post-rehearsal events?

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Latest activity by Lady, on July 15, 2019 at 2:26 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    As a guest, I wouldn’t think that timing was too late as long as you weren’t having an early morning ceremony. I think it really depends on you and how early you need to be awake.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I would just do one event for everyone. besides your guests, you’re not going to want to do late drinks like that the night before your wedding. We’re inviting 100% of our guests to the RD bc everyone is traveling and we’re going to do light food and s’mores and games ending by 9. I’m taking RSVPs for this event too so we can plan ahead.
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  • Jennifer
    VIP October 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Have a lunch for the wedding party and host drinks after or vice versa.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    We ran into a similar issue and opted to invite everyone to our RD since everyone was from out of town. Luckily it was only 40 people and others came the morning of the wedding. After dinner anyone that wanted to join us in the bar for a drink we did that too. It all depends on budget for everyone.
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    What about having dinner before the rehearsal and then drinks afterwards?

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I don't think so! People aren't forced to go and it's nice you are doing that at all.

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  • L
    Lady ·
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    I would skip the welcome drinks. If you're doing a rehearsal you need to provide those involved with dinner after.

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