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Michelle
Champion December 2022

Skipping reception introductions

Michelle, on December 18, 2020 at 12:05 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 14
Is anyone else doing this? We are having everything at one venue with the same guests all day and introduced at the of the ceremony. So that part is redundant. But being in the spotlight for that moment with all the attention that goes with it and an MC going wild gives me a panic attack. Neither of us have attended a wedding where intros were done so don't see it as required. I've also watched some on Youtube to see if any are remotely subdued and they are all the same level of uncomfortable and over the top. FH just thinks it's redundant. We're also skipping an MC. Plus weddings I've attended without one flowed better.

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Latest activity by Melle, on December 21, 2020 at 1:36 PM
  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I've only been to one wedding where they didn't do a grand introduction. It was my sister-in-law's wedding. She had a very low key wedding in her backyard. She was actually walking around in her wedding dress prior to the ceremony so everyone knew what her dress would look like and everything. She is also very shy and doesn't like attention bought to her. There also really wasn't a place for them to do a grand entrance and it started pouring shortly after the ceremony ended so we all gathered under the tents she rented. At my brother's wedding, the grand introduction was pretty low key. They said our names as we walked down a set of stairs with music playing in the background. There was no crazy dancing or anything like a lot of people do during grand entrances. But if it isn't something you want to do then don't feel like you have to.

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  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    This is one of those that is 100% your choice, since it doesn't affect the guests at all (unlike, say, not having enough food or chairs at the reception or something). I've been to plenty of weddings without an MC and without formal introductions. Everyone there does indeed know who you are. Smiley smile

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    We won't be skipping the intros. I've never heard of anyone being introduced during the ceremony. I was originally planning on walking in normally for the reception intros but FH was part of wedding where the wedding party danced their way in. He liked it and thought it would be a fun idea. Only because he rarely asks for anything, I thought it only fair to let him have it. You're absolutely right though, it's not mandatory so you're totally fine not doing it. Especially if it's uncomfortable for you.

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Every wedding Ive been to and seen online, the officiant says at the end of the ceremony after the kiss "now meet the new (Groom and Bride)" or some variation before the recessional music starts to walk out.
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    Oh that part! I misunderstood. I was focused more on the wedding party portion, not the couple. I see what you mean.

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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    We will not be doing introductions. I’ve never liked them (They remind me of a sporting event lol) and it’s just not the vibe of our wedding.
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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    That's my impression too
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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    It's completely up to you whether you want to skip them or not! Guests are rarely affected by this part of the wedding, so feel free to skip it if you would like!

    We are doing intros into the reception. We're both fun-loving people and so is our bridal party, so we like the idea of the pairs being announced and dancing in!

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  • L
    Dedicated May 2021
    Lindsey ·
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    We’re not going to be doing introductions. I’m laid back and non-traditional so it was never something I thought about. I agree with the Chrysta who said it seems like a sporting event lol, I get that vibe from it too personally. I don’t think it’s weird to leave it out.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2022
    Samantha ·
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    We’re not doing any sort of MC or intros. The DJ will do the intro to the first dance, that’s it.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Yes ma'am; I'm not even having a reception
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    We did a big introduction - but we're actors and we love that stuff.

    If you don't like it, *don't do it*.

    Since it's not common in your area, no one will blink.

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  • Sarah
    Super August 2021
    Sarah ·
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    I'm skipping intros at mine.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    We did the intro only for the bride and groom. i didn't want to wrangle all my bridesmaids and groomsmen in for the grand entrance haha.

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