We are probably going to do texts, phone calls, maybe face to face but may be hard to remember stuff, or do a facebook private event and message people, and even type out some cards to send. I tried the whole wedding website thing and it's just awfully set up. No room for creativity and putting in some personalization in there. It's just to cut and dry. So, anyway....
The Invitation
Me and my man Sitting in a Tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G
(but, it's ok because we are getting married now)
Date (hopefully): Aug 3rd 2020
at our address/home
***Also, (we will send this invitation out with just all the info at once like the rsvp about 6 to 9 months before, and on the rsvp ask what 1-3 songs do they want to hear and 1-3 drinks...alcoholic and/or non) and then send another one as a reminder 1-2 months before or maybe just kind of remind of some kind? Like save the dates with rsvp, even though the save the dates are kind of blah to me.*** Call it type A personality, but I do like knowing a rough about headcount. Waiting until 2 weeks seems like I'll go crazy. I'll make it a month. No contact on phone or proof you were invited, they're not coming in because that's just rude.
Details (not concrete because we've also thought about pasta too, but it being summer...opinions?:
Ceremony starts at 1, but feel free to come at 11:30 for family and friends pictures assuming bride and groom pictures will take like and hour?
There will be board games such as card games (like for adults), outdoor games (badminton, football, swimming pool, and sandbox), and a bunch of toys. Beer pong for adults. And the Famous Imperial Walker from Star Wars the my brother built (like a playground) haha.
Food:
We're going for a picnic style reception, like sandwiches and whatnot. Due to different allergies, we felt this was a smart idea. And also fun! Me and my man will be serving 2 loaves of bread (remember 40 people), peanut butter, jelly, and beverages such as apple juice, milk, water, and some beer for the adults. If you would like to add some extras feel free such as, other things to go on sandwiches r snacks or whatever you can think of.
Cake: We love cheesecake- please specify allergies on rsvp card.
Alcohol: We will have beer, wine, champagne. There will be no liquor, but please feel free to share a cocktail you would love to share! … side random note, I like peach long island teas!
***I don't want to have a dry wedding because I do have a drinking problem, but want people to have a nice time.
On a separate card would be the rsvp: basically asking if you will be attending and how many people. And some of the things I mentioned above.