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RaylaSan
Expert February 2021

So one of our groomsman dropped out one week away from the wedding, whats the processional order?

RaylaSan, on February 5, 2021 at 2:09 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 12

My wedding is one week away from happening, and one of my groomsmen dropped out due to getting COVID from work. Nothing could be done about it, and while I'm sad, I'm accepting of it and I understand the situation completely. No hard feelings in that regards. He told us that he got sick with COVID four weeks ago, while he was working, and I let him know that we'll just wait and see if he gets better one week away from the wedding. He and his brother both got tested recently, and their both positive.

I'm not freaking out, and I'm not upset. In fact, I'm grateful he gave us the heads-up and told us there was the possibility he couldn't make it.

Right now, I need to rethink the processional order. Originally, I was going to have my bridesmaids and groomsmen walk side by side together, but IDK if it would look too weird now that one of them has dropped out. Or maybe I should have them walk out separately.


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Latest activity by MLS, on February 5, 2021 at 8:40 PM
  • A
    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    Either way would work. You could either have the last 3 work together, or maybe the first/last girl one walks by themselves.
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  • AJ
    Super October 2022
    AJ ·
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    I’ve seen where a party is uneven one groomsmen walks down with two bridesmaids. Could have your last pairing walk down as three, or could have them all walk individual. I would say if you have a large party pair them up, if it’s smaller have them individual.
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  • RaylaSan
    Expert February 2021
    RaylaSan ·
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    There's going to be five bridesmaids, and four groomsmen, do you this would be okay when it comes to walking seperately?

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    Devoted August 2023
    Hhh ·
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    I’ve seen it done both ways (pre-Covid, just different numbers of each side). I’d recommend 2 bridesmaids with 1 groomsman, it looks less like there is a lonely bridesmaid (make sure your aisle is wide enough). But either way is perfectly normal 🙂
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I was actually MOH in a wedding that had uneven amounts! so there were 4 of us girls and then there were 5 groomsmen. so what they did, was had me walk out first by myself and then everyone else was paired.

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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    I would just have them walk in pairs, then the last to walk come in as three!

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  • AJ
    Super October 2022
    AJ ·
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    I feel like 9 people walking down by themselves would take awhile, no?

    you could do:

    MOH + BM

    Bridesmaid + Groomsman

    Bridesmaid + Groomsman

    Bridesmaid + Groomsman + Bridesmaid

    - OR -

    MOH

    BM

    Bridesmaid

    Groomsman

    Bridesmaid

    Groomsman

    Bridesmaid

    Groomsman

    Bridesmaid

    I feel like it might be lonely/awkward to walk alone. Ask your bridal party if they would be okay walking alone or the last pair walking as a trio.

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    Judith ·
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    Having that many walk down separately would take to long. Have one person walk down, not paired off. Or start all groomsmen standing beside the groom, having entered from a side aisle before the processional music starts, after mothers are seated. So only MOH, Bridesmaids and child attendants come down the
    aisle. More than half of weddings do not have the men walk down the aisle at all. They start down fromt with the groom, particularly when there is a big bridal party. They only walk back up the aisle at the end, and either 2 bm walk together then a GM behind them, or after the last pair, a single bridesmaid.
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I would just have one of the other groomsmen walk with two bridesmaids. One of our friends did this for his wedding. His brother got food poisoning the night before the wedding and couldn't attend. It looked fine. The other would be to have the men stand at the front with your fiancé and have the bridesmaids walk alone.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I like this suggestion! Nothing wrong with this
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Anything goes! You can have a bridesmaid walk with 2 groomsmen, have them all walk individually but alternate (girl, boy, girl, boy etc) or have the guys up there with your groom & your bridesmaids walk alone.
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  • MLS
    Dedicated September 2021
    MLS ·
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    As many have suggested before, have one of the groomsmen walk with two bridesmaids. That's my backup plan, because I have one groomsmen I am worried won't make it.
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