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Kaitlyn
Dedicated April 2022

Sometimes i just want to elope

Kaitlyn, on January 10, 2022 at 9:30 PM Posted in Planning 0 4
Not really, I’m super excited to have our wedding with all of our friends and family. We got engaged January of 2021 and we’re getting married in April of this year. The first 10 months or so I wasn’t stressed at all, thought I had all the time in the world. Then November hit and I was like crap! It’s only 6 months away! Now it’s January and I’m like oh god it’s almost here! I’ve been so stressed, it’s making me crazy. I have so much help from my sisters and my mom and my FMIL (my fiancé is her only child so she’s been planning this his whole life and has been a HUGE help). In my head I know all the big things are done, we’ve had our venue and major vendors since last year, but now it’s all the little things that are making me crazy. Am I the only one?

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Latest activity by Kaitlyn, on January 13, 2022 at 1:13 AM
  • Charlotte
    Dedicated June 2022
    Charlotte ·
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    Nope you definitely are not the only one. I've got till June and I am already getting frazzled about all the little details that I need to keep in mind. The big vendors were a different kind of difficult, (and I still and trying to nail down a caterer) but now it's just ahgsklsak;akjfskaskjfaj;k!

    So many tiny details, and I know I am not even thinking of all of them yet!!! Those details really stress me out because I am not a super particular person when it comes to details, but I still have to make all the decisions!

    You can do it!!! Take it one day at a time!!! And remember the most important part of the day is the fact that you and your loved one will be starting your life together!!! All those little details will be in the background!

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I felt exactly the same way! But to be fair - it feels like there's so much that can only be done in those last few months!!

    The way I kept myself sane was by only thinking of the next item on my list, and focusing on banging things out one by one!

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  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated April 2022
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    Yes! I’m the same way! From the beginning I’m like ok, my FMIL and her best friend are doing decorations and centerpieces. I told them what kinds of things I like and basically gave them free reign, but there’s still questions all the time. I appreciate the help, but I feel like I’m more laid back about it than my FMIL lol. But I’m glad to know I’m not alone in this!
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  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated April 2022
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    That’s a great way of looking at it! I’ve been trying to tell myself that I can only do so much at this point. But I have anxiety anyways, which doesn’t help. So I just lay in bed at night thinking of all the things left to do 😭
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