Repeating the title of the discussion as, it goes out of screen: Special Kind of Wedding, I would like. Complete Gender Role Reversal Wedding (including the special clothing). Would that be okay in this day and age or would I have to wait another 1000 yrs for it to be okay?
What do I mean by a complete gender role reversal wedding including the special clothing, i mean the groom would be the one who walks down the aisle, with the mother of the groom giving him away to his wife on the altar, the basically the male groom becomes the bride wearing the dress, while the female bride becomes the groom wearing a tuxedo, in female form or male form doesn't matter which and the ring bearer would be the little girl wearing a tuxedo, and the flower girl would basically a little boy wearing a flower girl dress, and the bridesmaids would become the groomsmen so to speak wearing pantsuit/tuxes instead of dresses and the groomsmen would become the bridesmaid wearing the dresses, and the best man would become the maid/matron of honor, wearing the special dress, and the maid/matron of honor would become the best woman so to speak wearing a pantsuit or tux. and special names would make it seem better and more gender non-conforming wedding so to speak.
Like the word bridegroom indicates the groom, it would be changed to a new word I invented known as gridegroom, basically a groom for a male bride. the name of the male bride would be called a gride, if that's not already a word that is. then again many words have extra definitions so it could be possible to have an existing word, to be another word for something as long as the wedding invitations has a glossary/dictionary on the back to explain this type of wedding. So basically the roles of a gender role reversal would be as follows:
Gride(A male bride who walks down the aisle and would be given away by his mother rather than father., still wearing the female wedding dress in his size of course)
A gridegroom,(a female groom) who stands at the altar wait for the gride to walk down the aisle wearing a pantsuit or tux, a dress would not be allowed unless talked into it by the in-laws and the odd family dynamic.)
Best Woman, basically the best man of the gridegroom, the female groom).
Bachelor/Patron of Honor, basically the maid/matron of honor but wearing a dress.
Gridesmaids-basically the bridesmaid that are men wearing a dress.
groomswomen, basically the groomsmen, but the women are wearing pantsuit/tuxes rather than a dress.
Flower boy- a young boy that is basically the flower girl for the gride, also wearing a dress.
Ring Beareress- a young girl that takes the role of ring bearer, but wearing a tux, or pantsuit rather than a dress.
This is what I mean by a complete gender role reversal wedding. However would society accept this type of wedding or would I have to take the boring tradition male route as the groom and the traditional boring crap, if so if society or the in-laws can't accept my dream of a wedding yes, there would be two wedding, one traditional and one role reversal wedding, which one first is up for debate of course as well too. I'm basically planning ahead, way ahead before I plan on even getting married. So what do you think of my gender role reversal and complete including the outfits, there is no exception with the outfits has to be as described as above. no ifs ands or butts, or would I have to wait another 1000 yrs to have my own dream wedding? I want to know ahead of time, so I can plan and budget, if possible. Thank you. Sorry if this discussion offended anyone and forgive me if it did offend anyone, and I'm basically the gride so to speak, writing this , the male bride if you will.