My sister has special needs and I really want to find a way for her to be in the wedding. She won't be a BM (only because she gets VERY fidgety and can be pretty irritable and that would stress me to the max). She is ok with not being one but I do want her to be in the wedding. Some have suggested her being an usher... not going that route, but I do want her to have an "all eyes on her" moment so she can be noticed. Any suggestions?!
Below is a pic of her