Speeches / Toasts

I think that sounds fair. You could also ask a close, mutual friend, of both you and your FH to say something.

I think that sounds great, and agree about possibly also including a close friend, if there is someone who would want to share their thoughts on your big day. I suggest describing what you're asking people to do as a "toast," rather than a "speech," and being very clear about a relatively short time requirement (3 minutes is a good max -- I've taught Public Speaking for 25+ years...). You and FH might also plan a brief "response," following the others' comments. It will give you a chance to thank your guests and let them know how much it means to the two of you that they were there to share in your day. (You'll still want to make an effort to talk with everyone individually, but a public response is still good!) If you're having a DJ, I'd be sure they know the exact plan for who is speaking, and the plan for when (and how long); they can help manage the process so guests know who's is speaking and keep things moving. Good luck!

Yup, I love this idea! Go for it!