Spinoff: craziest bachelor/bachelorette party story!

I wouldn't be OK with any of that at all. Disgusting

I heard about a bachelor party where the grooms father, uh, "went downtown" on the stripper. In front of his son (the groom) and all his friends. He's married.

Being a decent person is not being a prude.

FH went to a bachelor party years ago. The groom got picked up by his side chick after the festivities... Classy...

I know, I needed sarcasm font @Ally! I just can't even imagine a world where any of that is OK.

@C&S - WOW.

My ex told me a story about the groom (aka his brother) getting serviced in a private room at a lady club they were at.

Edited- @C&S Just.Ew.

Thats pretty bad. I would never be ok with any of that. None of it.

This isn't that bad as its more like wow..but a friend of mine was a GM in his BF's wedding last year and in April the GM's and the BM's planned bach and bachelorette parties to vegas like a week apart. Well the guys went first and the groom wasn't super into it because he kept thinking of the bride the whole time so he walked up and down the strip buying her little things here and there to make HER week (the next week) more fun or whatever and my friend went with him while the rest of the GM's were at a bar or something. Anyway, the groom forgot he left his phone with one of the GM's and the bride was freaking out the whole time back home so she was blowing up his phone. She somehow got it in her head that he was going to have sex with a stripper. she was convinced it was going to happen and when he didn't answer his phone she flipped out. She took a hammer and pounded holes into one of the doors in their house in a rage. I mean this door was demolished. I guess he was ok with it because they wanted to replace the door anyway, but I mean thats an insane temper. She went to vegas the next week and had a blast and they got married a month later. Bitches be crazy.

Then I'm prude as hell. And I'm fine with that. That is NOT the kind of night you have for a bachelor party. Or have for ANY kind of night. Drugs and hookers are just bad.

Also, my H told me some nasty Bach parties. Like two female strippers double donging it and going down on each other and guys paying to take turns with them. Also, I was at a bowling alley once and some guys rented out a little room there for their Bach party and the door was wide open and I saw a stripper giving a guy head once. My H had a stripper put nipple clamps on him at a bach party once. LOL he hated it.

When my step mom married my dad... I was 12. Of course I don't know what happen. But the night before the wedding was her bach, she got so messed up she couldn't enjoy the wedding. And at the ceremony (she lost her voice the night before, it was just fine at the RD) she could barely say the vows it was in little whispers. My rule All BACH parties must occur at least 3 weeks before the wedding. I told FH if he wants to get left at the alter come to the ceremony drunk & whisphering, were done. It shouldnt be a big deal but the vows are the most important part.

I am joining team prude.

Also I have no stories, I'm too much of a prude.

My gah....what is wrong with people??

The last bachelorette party I went to, the bride's sister wanted to see how many dudes she could make out with. HUNDREDS. All I could think about was mouth-herpes. Ew.

I hear ya, girl. It's pretty ridiculous what people think is okay.

@Kimberly, that sounds like someone who should be on Bridezillas.

I went to Vegas for a bachelorette party for 4 days, 12 girls, 2 condos and it was insane. The "Party night", (each nigh was themed) we all went out clubbing a few girls were DONE with for the night, I chose to take them back to the condos. And yeah I got hell for that, but it sure beats doing what they did and not getting back until the next day at 11am. They went to strip clubs meet a few guys and partied with them all night all morning, and aww man the stories. Even the bride to be was a very Bad girl she strayed from her FH at the time, but when I got home I was really upset at my very good friend who invited me, because she was cheating on her man with her ex who lived there. *SIDE NOTE* Our men were on a golf trip during this time, and after a few months later her boyfriend confessed to meeting a girl at the bar on their golf trip and continued that for over a month. She had the balls to make him go to counseling, never allowed to hang with the guys again... I am over here like Bitch you did him wrong to. I did not tell him, but I should have. We are no longer friends, they were major drama. And from talking with my FH, that wasn't the first time this happened in their relationship.

Now, I get being a bad girl every so often but there is a line a BIG RED one. DO NOT CROSS THE LINE. it really is that easy. I always say I dance on the line. I would never stray from my man, our sex is to damn good to want anything more.

I don't condone any of this. For me, a bach party is a fun night out (or in) with friends celebrating your upcoming marriage. It's not your "last night" being single. You haven't been single since you entered the relationship. There are no excuses in my book for parties like these. Absolutely not.

@ Kristen, well said. I agree. My FH asked me to plan his party for him... He is a HUGE golfer so I have planned a nice day golfing at Pebble Beach with him and his best 3 w/ a room, I made a care package for the guys, with cigars and FH favorite port wine enough for all of them. He has no idea yet, its booked for August.

Absolutely, Kristen. MY FH isn't even having a party!

I know of a guy that went to his bach party - long story short - stripper took him to a back room - he had some stuff done to him - he went home with the stripper and had a relationship with her even after he got married. The affair kept going for idk how long. Sad just sad!

Yuk. The craziest one I went to was the one I hosted! Drinks at the hotel, dinner at house of blues where the bride was called on stage to sing with the guy. Then off to our favorite gay bar, where we were fed tall red drinks. We danced our asses off, everyone at the bar essentially joined our dance party, we took turns being totally uncoordinated on their stripper pole (but clothes stayed on!), fell into cabs, and slept all piled together in 1 bed. No one cheated on anyone, but had a seriously drunken good time. Nothing "crazy" per say, but it was such a blast! Eta: the craziest I've heard of is when my friend did private dancing. Let's just say she had a lollipop trick that everyone loved