Spinoff: craziest bachelor/bachelorette party story!

WOW. All of these stories are just confirming the suspicions I have of strippers and I am thankful I finally got FH to see where I was coming from.

@Ms. Beach and Boats (I am not judging bc I am no means perfect) but I also have an associate who I know for a fact cheated while her FH was away for an extended period (they weren't engaged then). She doesnt know I know but FH & I are close to the guy she was cheating with. And she got on him about counseling when he cheated (texting another girl) when she was sleeping with another guy for months.

Strippers have nothing to do with if your man wants to cheat on you....IJS.

I went to the strip club with FH once and there was a guy there on his bach party and the stripper was jerking him off through his pants. Yup, he had a full blown hard-on.

Katy - Absolutely, if he doesn't want to cheat he won't, period! BUT I still don't want some dirty ho's hands all over FH lol. FH is more than welcomed to go to strip clubs just no lap dances!

Yeah, unfortunately these parties can turn into a night out for the single friends and get way too crazy. Every time someone mentions it'll be "our last night out" I tell tell them that neither of us are planning on barring all the doors in our house and never coming out. It's so silly.

FMP I said the something along those lines to FH last night. I said I don't care if its fun for other people, this is about you, and I don't think you should have another girls tits and juices on you a week before we're supposed to get married.

These stories literally are my worst fear. I am not a jealous person at all but I am not ok with this.

I couldn't imagine being one of those girls (assuming they were faithful themselves) and having all the guys that were there, watching him cheat, looking at her- as she looks like an idiot marrying the man she thinks was faithful to her. (I told FH that as well).

My husband actually told on one of his friends for cheating, I'm not sure if it was at a bach though. All I know is that even though the guy was one of his best friends, the woman was too and she was his friend longer so he felt it was his duty to tell her. The two broke up for awhile, but have been married for years and have 2 kids together.

Gross. I am so lucky to have a man that isn't interested in any of that. Chances are he and his friends will play pool, drink way too much and maybe smoke some cigars.

Um I don't think that has anything to do with being prude? I'd be livid

Good for him @Kimberly. I think my FH would do the same. He is soooo totally not OK with messing around.

I've never personally been to/heard of one that was "crazy" in the sense everyone's talking about here, my circle of friends tends to do cheesy costume parties, karaoke nights, or going out dancing (like swing, Latin, and tango, not really into the club scene personally). So for me the craziest would probably be when I was a BM we saw pics of the groom's bachelor party after the fact and his GMs came into his room that morning while he was sleeping and woke him up with an airhorn and rushed him to get ready so he was all disoriented. They all piled into a van and drove out to a field in the middle of nowhere where his GMs had set up an obstacle course type thing (the ball and chain run, is the only part of it I can remember but the other stuff was silly and wedding related too). I think they had super soakers or a water balloon fight or something because I remember them coming back to the house where all us BMs were doing our nails and they were soaked lol

My FH just wants to go to some giant intricate paintball range he's been dying to check out. He doesn't drink so a regular bach party probably wouldn't be all that fun for him