Hi all,
I know we have some brides on here whose first time is going to be their wedding night. Since some may be afraid to ask, what sort of advice would you non-virgins like to offer?
I'll go first:
1. First time sex is usually pretty dang awkward, especially if you're both virgins. Don't expect the moon and stars the first time around. But keep practicing, it gets better. Sometimes the first time hurts, sometimes it doesn't. Ask your DH to be patient and go slow.
2. Use lubrication, such as K-Y. Don't use Vaseline.
3. Lots of women can't orgasm from sex alone...which is why we have foreplay!
4. Lots of embarassing stuff can happen - queefs, sweat, falling off the side of the bed. Be playful and able to laugh it off.
5. Instead of guy-on-top, try being on top and gradually lowering yourself onto him. It'll allow you to control the depth of penetration until you're comfortable.
Anyone else?
