So I have had my wedding planned for 3+ years (Covid & unplanned pregnancies). My cousin has only been engaged for a 1.5 years. I've posted before about how she switched her venue from a museum to a barn and has been copying some of my ideas. Okay, fine, rustic barn weddings tend to overlap in certain things. I am just wondering how to deal with her mother, my aunt.
My aunt has spoiled my cousin from the get go. My uncle is currently working 7 days a week to cover her entire wedding so she doesn't have to pay anything herself. Whatever that's on them. But I know my aunt. She will say I copied her daughters wedding and point out all the stuff that's "copied." I have had all my details planned in stone for 3 years except my big exit due to insurance issues. I had a wedding bit** planned in order to help with keeping bad people away and shutting their attitudes down however she will be 2 weeks post delivery of her baby. So I wont be having her do the wedding job any more.
So how do I go about shutting my aunt down at the wedding when she starts this up? I really don't want a argument on my day that I've planned for so long.