My dad passed away when I was in college, years before I met my FH. I'm planning to ask my mom to bring my dad's ashes to the wedding, and my mom and I will be dancing together along with my FH and his mom in a combined parent child dance. I asked my FH what he thought about spreading my dad's ashes (some of them, not all of them) at the wedding or at our venue, and he was fine with it. I haven't asked my mom or the venue yet (I obviously would), but was trying to think of if its something I really want to do and how I would incorporate it first.
Do any of you know of any people who have done this? We've had my dads ashes for 12 years now and don't know what to do with them because he didn't have a favorite place or dying wish or anything. I almost feel like it could be therapeutic in a way for me and my mom, but I'm really not sure.
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