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Beginner August 2018

Standing vs sitting

Sasha, on December 28, 2017 at 10:57 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 10
Hello everyone . I was talking to my sister about having the wedding party stand during the ceremony since I would like to have an outdoor ceremony. I Have never been to an outdoor ceremony but I do not believe that i have seen bridesmaids and groomsmen seated during outdoor ceremonies in pictures. Help! Suggestions?

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Latest activity by Tatum, on December 31, 2017 at 2:46 PM
  • Megan
    Expert June 2018
    Megan ·
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    If the ceremony is more than 10 minutes long, I'd offer the BP seats. Especially if the weather is warm, or your gals are in heels.
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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    I've never been to a wedding where the wedding party was seated. How long are you planning your ceremony to last? What will the temperature be?

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  • NikNak
    Master September 2018
    NikNak ·
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    I've only ever seen bridal parties sit when it's part of a mass, but as PP have mentioned, if the ceremony is short, maybe 20-25min max, your BP should be fine.
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  • Sara P.
    VIP October 2018
    Sara P. ·
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    I've only ever seen BPs sit during a Catholic mass.
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  • Mrs.hays
    VIP April 2018
    Mrs.hays ·
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    I’ve never been to a wedding where the BP has been seated
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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    I wouldn't worry about it unless your ceremony is really really long, I've never seen the WP sit either. We are offering a chair to one groomsman who has chronic pain issues, he says he'll see how he feels day of and let us know.

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
    Mrs. Fall Bride ·
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    Wedding party usually stands for the whole ceremony, I don’t think I’ve ever been to a wedding where they were seated. Our ceremony was outside & our WP stood with us the whole time, it was 30 min including pro/recessional. It doesn’t have to be 10 minutes or less for them to stand.

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  • S
    Beginner August 2018
    Sasha ·
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    Thank you everyone for the feedback! I will be showing the responses to my sister
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  • PandaInLove
    Expert August 2017
    PandaInLove ·
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    Yeah, I've also never heard of a seated wedding party. Indoor or outdoor. Unless your ceremony will be crazy long (over an hour) they can stand alongside you. I also had an outdoor ceremony. Total of 20 minutes, the entire wedding party stood.

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    Savvy May 2018
    Tatum ·
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    The only weddings ive been to that the BP sits down at are Catholic Weddings. My nephew and his wife had an outdoor wedding at a vineyard and their BP stood through the whole ceremony and it was more than 10mins long
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