My
FH’s adult daughter loves drama. She has
made several comments about our wedding that are hurtful to me. She hated her dad’s last wife (I’ll be his 3rd),
so I think she is just worried that I will turn out like her. But I have tried to spend as much time with
her as possible to show her who I am.
She acts like she loves me, then runs her mouth to my FH’s mom about how
she is sick of me talking about the wedding (I’ve talked about it twice with
her ever, and only to discuss dates).
She also said how selfish we are for having our wedding the same weekend
as her boyfriend’s birthday and ‘stealing his thunder’, so we moved it to a
month later. She is constantly screaming
at her dad about how horrible of a father he was when they were younger (he wasn’t). She blames me for fights she and her dad get into. My FH is so fed up, he wants to just distance
ourselves from her. But I know inside
and in the long run, this will cause a lot of pain for him, and I just want him
to have the happy marriage and his kids in his life. What do I do?