So my dad has been dating a woman since I was in kindergarten, and they recently got married. I'm not that warm and fuzzy about her but I realize shes my stepmom and a part of my family, so I'm trying to keep her included in wedding stuff so she feels important. I asked her if she wanted to get ready with me, my mom and the other girls the morning of the wedding, and her response was "I'll pass". I also asked her if she wanted to come to one of my dress fittings, and she just avoided the question and started asking about what she should wear. I told her she could wear whatever she wanted and told her the wedding colors in case she wanted to match. She keeps complaining that I'm not telling her or my dad enough about the wedding, but then whenever I invite her to stuff she declines.
Am I not doing enough or should I accept her answers and just leave it at that? I just dont want her to feel left out but at the same time I'm not going to go out of my way to make her super included if she doesn't want to be
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