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Kristyღ
VIP June 2015

Still doesn't feel real. at all.

Kristyღ, on March 27, 2015 at 2:56 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 20

I'm not the kind of person who gets their hopes up over anything. So in my mind, the wedding itself seems unreal. I don't think it will fully hit me until I'm walking down the freakin aisle and I see everyone there. It just all seems so surreal!

to my ladies who are already married. When did you have your "OMG THIS IS REALLY REAL" moment?

20 Comments

Latest activity by StitchingBride, on March 27, 2015 at 3:45 PM
  • bridalfever
    Super June 2015
    bridalfever ·
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    I thought that too but when I was doing my budget this week, counting the weeks, it did feel real. Real scary.

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  • alyshadanielle
    Master April 2015
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    I feel the same way!

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  • LadyMonk
    Master September 2014
    LadyMonk ·
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    I don't know it was pretty surreal. It went from "IT'S HAPPENING!!!" to surreal back and forth until I was waiting behind the doors with my parents to walk down the aisle and we were trying to figure out what to do with our arms. lol.

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  • C&S
    VIP June 2015
    C&S ·
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    It didn't feel real until we sent the invites out. At that point it turned into a real event that people are actually invited to haha

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  • Crystal L.
    Master August 2015
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    Same here! I totally doesn't feel real at all! Even though we keep getting supplies and decorations, and paid for our photographer and baker...it's just surreal!!

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  • Nina
    Devoted May 2015
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    Me too!! I am only 44 days away and it still doesn't seem real. Its almost scary when I look at our budget. And my FH just admitted it didn't seem real last night. So, I believe its going to continue like this until the day.

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  • Mrs. Nicole
    Master May 2016
    Mrs. Nicole ·
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    I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I had a little bit of a moment when we picked up FH's ring the other day and he wore it home and I was all oogly eyed over seeing him wear it for 20 minutes.

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  • FutureMrsChang
    VIP September 2015
    FutureMrsChang ·
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    It's starting to feel real because I am almost finished with collecting addresses and people are starting to ask what is going on and when I tell them they get so excited and say " I cannot wait"! So, now that the word is out to our guests it's really hitting me, we are actually doing this!

    When my mom and went dress shopping and I found "the one" it was another moment that hit me.

    Tomorrow I am meeting with our planner to go more into details about our rentals and other stuff, and then we are going to our bakery for cake tasting and to design our cake! So, I am getting really excited!

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  • purplekitten
    Master October 2015
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    It doesn't seem real to me, either. It feels like I'm just pretending I'm getting married and people are going along with it as not to upset me.

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  • FutureMrs.Jones
    Expert May 2015
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    I feel the same way. People keeping asking me am I nervous or excited.

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  • Kretta
    Super May 2015
    Kretta ·
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    Omg I seriously had this thought last night.. I still don't feel like its really happening.. it hasn't hit me yet and I don't think it will until the day of my wedding. it feels like a dream and I'm going to wake up anytime.

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  • Lara
    Master July 2015
    Lara ·
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    I think you're right, I think it won't be until I'm walking down the aisle with my dad....

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  • Kristyღ
    VIP June 2015
    Kristyღ ·
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    Damn, so it isn't just me! I feel like on the big day I'll be like "Awe you guys came!!! i guess i am really getting married today!"

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  • OG FMP
    Master August 2015
    OG FMP ·
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    Starting to feel really now because like FutureMrsChang we're also starting to collect addresses and people are asking questions Eeeek!

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  • Lauren
    Super June 2015
    Lauren ·
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    Its going to feel very real in May when we pay off all our vendors....I'm nervous about dropping all that money!

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  • Emmy
    Master January 2015
    Emmy ·
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    Still doesn't.

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  • Trixey
    Devoted January 2015
    Trixey ·
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    I'm with Emmy, it does not feel real! I still forget my new last name and it feels weird to say "I would like you to meet my husband" lol

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  • KM
    Master March 2015
    KM ·
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    It still doesn't feel real

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  • Lucy
    Master April 2015
    Lucy ·
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    16 days and I still feel like it's not real. I don't think it will hit me until the doors are opening for me to start walking down the aisle.

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  • StitchingBride
    Master October 2014
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    When I was all done up in the veil and the whole bridal look, then got a look of myself in the full length mirror- then I started bawling like a baby, I was so happy! Smiley smile

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