So my wedding coordinator asked me what I was thinking for walking down the aisle-- if my father would do it, etc. And honestly, I don't know how to deal with this scenario without angering people:
My mom and dad divorced when I was little. He's not a stellar dad or example, but we're not particularly close. he's helped out me through college etc. But he's a raging alcoholic and I just don't think of him in that daddy/daughter way. He's the reason we won't have any alcohol served at our wedding ceremony.
My mom's partner of 20 years is another choice... but we're not close either. She's also an alcoholic and I have a lot of trauma from our relationship. My mom kind of forces our relationship so it's not natural and there's lots of resentment.
The main person I wanted to walk me down was my Abuelito (maternal grandfather) but he passed away five years ago.
I could just ask my mom or my older brother but I feel that would cause strife. Should I just go alone?
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