I'm a very indecisive person. I LOVE this dress but it being strapless kind of turns me off? I was told I could add straps or sleeves or whatever but my grandma said adding them would kind of take away from the dress. It's a corset back so I wouldn't have to worry about having to pull it up constantly. I'm pretty sure this is the one I want, but would you leave it strapless or add a cap sleeve, spaghetti straps, or a long sleeve?