Strip Clubs for Bachelor Parties

@Emily - "There's nothing wrong with watching from afar."

That's your opinion and you're certainly entitled to it. I, however am of the opinion that it's inappropriate. Um, I've seen Magic Mike. Fun but, not really sure what an overly produced, choreographed movie has to do with anything.

Strip clubs are not my favorite but some of y'all are making me look like the coolest wife ever. Like I'm picturing you covering your FH's eyes during a rated R movie.

Ok - we are 14 pages in having the same argument. Moving forward, I think this thread should just be limited to Mrs. K showing pictures of her rack.

Just because.

Strip clubs can be a lot of fun, especially if you go with your SO. But that is my experience. And I have stripped and danced for DH many times, even recently. In fact, we believe that is how I got pregnant the 2nd time (based on timing, etc.). Just saying.

If you've ever been to LeBare or Thunder Down Under or something of the like, it's no different from the movie.

I don't find strip clubs to be super fun, but I also wouldn't think my FH was horrible and disrespectful for going to one either. Even though he's expressed to his BM that he has no interest in going to one. I just am not sure anyone can truly have an opinion on this unless they've experienced one. It's totally different than I was ever imagining when I went for a friends bachelorette.

@OKD....I'll toast to that!

If a man doesn't enjoy a bj, that's because you're doing it wrong! Sorry not sorry...

Bville...you need proof that your FH is human? And a strip club will do that?

That's sad.

@FMP! Bahahahaha!

I love you bitches! And I never tire of seeing Mrs. K's rack!

Nah, sad is taking an obvious turn of phrase/joke and trying to say someone's situation is "sad" in a really patronizing manner.

It was like, the one light-hearted comment and you zoomed in on it and tried to nail her on it. That's what's sad....

Titty sprinkles! Love it.

@Bethie - Any chance I can hijack thread with my tits is a good one.

@Nikki ahhhhh... the truth comes out. you know a girl... Anyone whose been cheated on has those stories. I know a girl who whose bf of 3 years was cheated on by the girl he told us was his godsister (For years), even got the girl pregnant and that's how everyone found out. I have another friend who actually just got engaged two weeks ago to someone else, her ex cheated on her with her own cousin (of blood related). honestly, if anyone (man or woman) wants to cheat, they can, it's not hard. and you don't need to go to a strip club to do it or be inspired to do it. It's especially unhealthy with all this restriction talk bc if that does happen, cheating, they you're just looking to blame someone else (oh those darn strippers, oh his lying "godsister," oh my slutty cousin) when its not their responsibility. IT'S HIS. An adult can make all of their own decisions, no person, place or thing can make them cheat. If they are going to cheat, that's on them.

If you think every guy makes it rain in the strip club you are delusional.

We are talking about reality. Your FH is not a rap star or famous athlete.

I go to the strip clubs for the free lunch buffet. Have to save money for the wedding somehow.

I wouldn't feel comfortable either. Thankfully, that is not even on the table for my FH bachelor party. I don't understand why your FH, or anyone's FH, wants some naked woman grinding on him not long before he says his vows to you. It just doesn't make sense. Like, " Hey I want to spend the rest of my life with you, but I want this stripper to grind on me one time before I say I do." I know people say its a last "who raw" but I don't get it. I personally would feel disrespected. I know not everyone feels that way, and that's fine. Everyone has their own limits in their relationships, but for us it is not an option.

Ok true story. I started an Easter tradition last year with my mom, MIL, etc. We have 1/3 acre of property and I had an adult style Easter egg hunt in our back yard. I hid a bunch of plastic colored eggs with $1 bills inside them.

So in preparation for this year (next week), I went to the bank yesterday to get a bunch of $1 bills. The banker dude didn't say anything out loud, but i could totally read what he was thinking...LOL. I just took my stack of 1's and left. No shame. He'll never know...lol.

Lol @massy, ain't that the truth

I'm just here for the boob pics now....man wish I had some of those. Mrs K you're going to have a list of people to accompany to the surgeon