Strip Clubs for Bachelor Parties

Judgy Mchighhorse- I'm stealing that.

My FH would rather play video games and eat pizza with his groomsmen and family than go to the strip club. One last night of freedom my butt. He will still have his freedom once we're married and there's no need to celebrate our last night of 'single' life because we're choosing to spend the rest of our lives together.

All guys are different some aren't into it, some are eh (they'll do it just for the traditional experience), and some are like my FH if he couldn't have a stripper at his bachelor party, there would be no point of having one. He's very social and goes out with his friends 2-4 times a month. Like Bethie my FH's bachelor party is in Vegas and they'll probably many-a-naked & half naked women during the trip. My FH has been to Vegas maybe a half dozen times, and he's at the age where all his friends are getting married so he probably goes to bach parties at least twice a year that I'm sure involve strippers. Personally I don't mind. It's not the women in the strip clubs you should worry about, you have to pay them. Its the women who are giving it away for free EVERYDAY, they're much more of a threat. But I also plan on having strippers at my bachelorette, FH said its cool as long as there's no (explicit) in my face. So I promised there will be none in my face, LOL. He was also surprised that I wanted a male stripper instead of female since I pole dance for fitness & hobbies. But I told him its my bach so why not see something different, plus I'm sure the ladies in attendance will appreciate it.

I smell some McHighhorse poo coming from both sides of the argument.

Anyone who goes to a strip club is a disgusting, cheating, lying kumtwat.

(kidding)

ETA: Was going to say "kumquat" but kumtwat had a ring to it. Never had a kumquat. Wonder if they're any good.

Very true Mac!

...and anyone who isn't okay with it is a giant prudy prude.

@PC -- a.... "Tight-Ass McPruderson," would you say?

Yes, love it! Tight-ass McPruderson and Nasty McKumtwat.

We both don't want to do strip clubs because as someone already stated we are in a committed relationship and having someone of the opposite sex strip and then grind on you feels like cheating to us. But I worry about his best man filling through on those wishes. He just wants to go away on a fishing trip I want a spa day and an adult sleep over and get trashed lol

It's all personal preference and boundaries people make in their own relationships. Some are ok with it, some are not. But it doesn't make either side wrong.

A lot of these people forgot titties are fun to look at.

@O&S, it's the state law in WA state. The clubs are 18+ so no alcohol--the law states the girls have to have their naughty bits covered while on the main floor (bikini, stripper outfit, etc) and they must strip to nude while doing their stage show. The girls can not be within 4 feet of a customer unless her areolas, pubic region including vulva and anus are covered. YES, the state law actually says those words.

This is also how the state gets away with a nifty little scam--making them private contractors they have to get their own entertainer's license and have pay the club each night they work. Most can make good money if they work it but on slow nights they sometimes barely break even after tipping DJ, security, waitresses, and bartender (for soda!).

The no alcohol is worse for the customers, the girls would just bring mini bottles to stash in the dressing room. The bonus is way less obnoxious drunks to deal with.

ETA: sorry for the repeated details from previous posts---operating on very little sleep and no coffee yet! Must be Wednesday.

If FH wants to go to a strip club, then I don't care. It doesn't threaten me at all, as we are both very open with each other about fantasies and what turns us on. People, men especially, are visual creatures. Hell, I would go to the strip club with FH if the mood was right. Why not? Those ladies are making a living just like the rest of us are. No reason to judge their choices. And I agree with @m- titties are fun to look at.

YASSSS!! Titties are lots of fun to look at! Did someone say titties?

I would rather my fiance not go to those places, but he can do what he wants. Luckily, he's not about strip clubs at all, buuuut here's what happened at his friend's bachelor party in NOLA.

They go to a strip club and the groom recognizes one of the strippers as a former classmate. What are the odds, right? Especially since we live quite a few states away. Fiance tells me she was a 'huge slut' back in the day. His words, not mine. Anyways, they go back to the same strip club every night - by the groom's request. And he gets dances from her only, steps away from the guys to 'talk' and 'catch up' with her, and on the last night, gets a private dance with her. Now, if the bride knew this, I'm not sure she would be OK with it.. I get if it was a complete stranger who you'll most likely never see again, but someone they both knew? (this stripper knew the bride as well, since they all went to school together.) Anyways, red flags were going up as my fiance was explaining this situation, but he says 'nothing happened' between the stripper and the groom.

I have a side question: For those who feel or have felt threatened or hesitant is it because you think strippers can do something you can't? (serious question).

pt. II: have you ever been to a strip club (with women performers)?

What if they say they don't like strip clubs, and they're not going, but they are actually going? Lol. No one knows for sure.

@MrsK- daaayyyuuuummmm girl!!! Dat rack goes to 11!

Hannah B that's what I'm thinking!

FFW I've been to strips clubs when I was single!

My fiancé is going to NOLA for his bachelor party and they booked their hotel room across from a strip club. I know they will go and honestly, I'm secure with myself and trust him so this doesn't bother me. I just told him no touching on the trip.. He doesn't care to much for strip clubs but I know his guy friends will make the request.