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Super September 2018

Strip Clubs 🙄

Kate, on August 29, 2018 at 9:16 PM

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So...how many of you are all about the strip clubs for bachelor or bachelorette parties? I had mine and we didnt go at all. We went out to eat, to the beach, did something fun during the day, and drank at the hotel. FHs is this weekend and his BM has already said they're going to the strip club....
So...how many of you are all about the strip clubs for bachelor or bachelorette parties? I had mine and we didnt go at all. We went out to eat, to the beach, did something fun during the day, and drank at the hotel. FHs is this weekend and his BM has already said they're going to the strip club. Which I've always been super uncomfortable about them. I trust FH. It's just like...im not a big fan of naked woman dancing on my husband. We actually went to where their bachelor party will be a month ago and his BM drug me to the strip club to show me that it wasnt as bad as I thought. Well that back fired bc I dislike them more. I thought the ones around here weren't allowed to be topless...but they are. And I just hate the idea of him going and having these girls topless trying to dance on him. He says it's not a big deal, he doesnt care to go but all the guys are going to drag him there because its "bachelor party traditions." Now I just like am grumpy about him going. Anyone else not like FH going to one? Or if you're totally cool with it, tell me how you feell about them not a big deal. I dont want to over think this.

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  • Devoted June 2020
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    I told my FH it's ok we're older couple I trust him. He doesn't want to go to a strip club for his bachelor party. I don't want a bachelorette party. I told my girls a Day Spa for me at a Luxury Hotel.
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  • Stephanie
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    I do not want to go for my Bach party (I have been with my FH in the past and have no problem with it). I have told my FH that if he wants to go for his, that’s fine by me! He just isn’t allowed to touch anyone else. I doubt he will go, but for me it is completely different if he goes with friends or is going on his way home from work by himself. If that started happening, we would have an issue.


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  • Kristen
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    Same here! But FH would not be interested AT ALL haha. He's never been and never plans to. I also don't have to worry about his groomsmen because they never would either.

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  • Kendra
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    Society has become comfortable with many things that were MEANT to be red flag warnings. Any husband who says it isn't a big deal and then lies about going, obviously has a problem. I wouldn't trust that at all. Respect means honoring what your spouse tells you makes him/her uncomfortable. Love then shows in your actions. Either you dismiss them and go anyway or you have enough love and respect that you honor his/her feelings. Going to a strip club shouldn't even be in your conversations. It's just like drugs.... you open yourselves up to something and it becomes a bigger problem later. That's just how these things work. Listen to your instincts.
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