Strippers and bachelor/bachelorette party

We are both Christians and we don't like the idea of each other attending strip clubs and things like that during our bachelor and bachelorette parties. My friends will most definitely respect my wishes and won't hire strippers. My FH's friends might not. And I know that if they ended up getting them, my FH would be super reluctant to tell me. He doesn't like when I'm the least bit upset (he is SUPER sensitive). I'm not mean or controlling but if I think they are going to do it anyways, should I let him get a stripper? I just don't believe in the whole "last night of freedom" idea. We are engaged. And I have a lot of trust issues. If something were to happen to with the stripper I would never be able to trust him again. I trust him now which is why I'm considering. But he is the first and only guy I've ever completely trusted. I just need some advice. What are your guys' thoughts? **please no rude comments. I understand we all have different beliefs **