Strippers vs. no strippers...

I am very against strippers for our bachelor/ette parties. He, of course, wants one, and his groomsmen have me very worried that he is going to get one. My MOH knows how I feel about it and I hope she does not get one for my party. I feel a little betrayed that he is not honoring my request of no strippers, becuase he knows I feel very strongly against it. Not to be a pain, but becuase I love him and I don't want someone else who isn't dressed giving him attention like that, and I certaintly don't want that on my side of the party. What do you think??